The Second Trimester
Having some knowledge about pregnancy and what happens to the woman's body and her mind, helps men cope more easily with their partner's pregnancy, and even enjoy it. This article gives you some of the facts about the so-called second trimester, the 14th to 28th week of pregnancy.
The second trimester is often considered the best. Nausea and vomiting often experienced by a pregnant woman in the first trimester has gone and the woman often looks good, glowing with pregnancy!
Baby's Progress
This stage of pregnancy is the main period of growth. By the 20th week the baby is growing rapidly in length (approximately 25.5cm) and weight (about 340g). The mother can now feel, and you will be able to see, the very active movements of the baby. The baby now has eyebrows, eyelashes and hair on its head. By the 28th week the baby has a relatively good chance of survival if born early and the baby is considered to be viable, that is, capable of independent and independent existence. The baby's enzyme systems and other endocrinological processes develop. The baby is about 37cm long and weighs 900g by the 28th week of pregnancy.
Weight gain in Pregnancy
It is often the one time in her life that a woman is happy to put on weight and have problems doing up her waistband. Overall a woman of average build on an unrestricted diet can healthily expect to put on about 12.6kg during the pregnancy. Most weight gain occurs between 20th and 30th week. As the pregnancy progresses the initial joy of weight gain may well test both your tolerance levels. However, it is very important that the woman has a good well-balanced diet to produce a healthy baby.
Sex in the Second Trimester
Every couple experiences this trimester differently. Some women are easily aroused and want sex more frequently, others may be too tired or worried that sex will harm the baby. A pregnant woman's breasts are often tender and sensitive and pressure may cause pain so your technique may have to change. The expanding abdomen will dictate appropriate positions also.
Where a woman has had frequent miscarriages your obstetrician will advise you on sexual intercourse. In some cases they will advise penetrative sex ceases until after the birth of the baby. Sensitivity and open communication of your feelings is very important to overcome and resolve sexual difficulties.
Antenatal Care and Doctors Visits
They continue and you should contribute to a birthing plan for your baby. Antenatal classes for men are a joy or a burden depending on your viewpoint. For some ignorance is bliss. Men are now expected (in most western births) to be present. If you decide not to attend you will arguably miss out on the most fantastic and magical experience. Speak to your partner and seek the advice of the experts in the medical team if you have worries. It is very important you feel supported too. Joining a 'Dads Group' will allow you to see that most men have concerns about pregnancy and babies. The groups can be very supportive and provide humor.
General Tips for Pregnant Men
Help with chores and housework
Give her positive strokes, even if she looks less than great!
The First Trimester
The Third Trimester
Images of Fetal Development